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Below are some resources we recommend on various counseling topics, in no particular order.  The downloads are PDF documents you may access directly from this page.

Our Free Downloadable Resources
3 Rules for Hard Conversations
Abuse Cycle
Caring for Your Family with a Special Needs Child
Child Sexual Abuse: a Worksheet for Victims and Possible Victims
Connecting the Dots: an overview of the Bible in stories
Do I Have an Addiction?
Exposure and Response Prevention Therapy for Anxiety
Family Messages and Life Vows
Fighting Fair
Foundations for Life
Help for the Holidays
Meditation Handout
Making a Family Covenant
Pitchers and Straws
Romantic Relationships: Principles for Women
Sleep Hygiene
Talking with Children about Death and Suicide
Trauma Recovery
Who Am I? An Identity Workbook

Child Abuse Prevention Resources
Darkness to LightAll parents, teachers and child-care workers are encouraged to take the two-hour course they offer for $11. It’s excellent. Caution: it does contain disturbing material in accounts from abuse survivors (PG-13).

Christian Practice
To Be Told: God Invites You to Coauthor Your Future by Dan Allender
A Praying Life: Connecting With God In A Distracting World by Paul Miller
War of Words: Getting to the Heart of Your Communication Struggles by Paul Tripp
The Healing Power of Forgiveness by Ray Pritchard

Christian Spirituality
The Cry of the Soul by Allender and Longman
The Practice of the Presence of God by Brother Lawrence
The Sovereignty of God by Arthur Pink
Stepping Heavenward by Elizabeth Prentiss
The Seeking Heart by Fenelon
The Soul of Shame by Curt Thompson

Raising Children
Parenting in the Pew: Guiding Your Children into the Joy of Worship by Robbie Castleman
The New Hide or Seek: Building Self-Esteem in Your Child by James Dobson
Transforming the Difficult Child: The Nurtured Heart Approach by Glasser and Easley
Age of Opportunity: A Biblical Guide to Parenting Teens by Paul Tripp
Shepherding a Child’s Heart by Tedd Tripp
Smart Stepfamily, The: Seven Steps to a Healthy Family by Ron Deal
Love & Respect in the Family by Emerson Eggerichs

The Five Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts by Gary Chapman
Sacred Marriage: What If God Designed Marriage to Make Us Holy by Gary Thomas
Love & Respect: The Love She Most Desires; The Respect He Desperately Needs by Emerson Eggerichs
Couple Checkup by Prepare-Enrich

Emotional Struggles
From Bondage to Bonding: A Working Guide to Recovery from Codependency and Other Injuries of the Heart by Nancy Groom
Every Man’s Battle: Winning the War on Sexual Temptation by Stephen Arterburn
The Anger Workbook: A 13-Step Interactive Plan by Les Carter and Frank Minirth
Samson and the Pirate Monks: Calling Men to Authentic Brotherhood by Nate Larkin
Depression: Looking Up from the Stubborn Darkness by Ed Welch
Safe In The Storm: The Grace of God, In the Midst of Cancer by Steve Hatcher
The Anxiety Cure by Archibald Hart
When I Am Afraid by Ed Welch (an anxiety workbook)
Running Scared by Ed Welch
Overcoming Fear, Worry and Anxiety by Elyse Fitzpatrick
Resources on same-sex attraction and gender identity by Mark Yarhouse

The Family Financial Workbook by Larry Burkett

Holzhauer Family Adventure: the email journal of a family on the road for a year – free PDF